Wednesday, December 19, 2012


I grew up without Christmas...

My dad is a non-denominational Christian minister and a writer so did his own research as to why no one can know the real birthday of Jesus, and how the origins of the holiday are pagan (if only he knew my beliefs now, as a cultural anthropologist, are open to most everything at a spiritual level, and closed to religiosity/dogma of any kind), and so we went on vacation for 2 weeks every holiday season instead of having a tree.

As an adult, I see no reason why celebrating any holiday is a bad thing, necessarily, or their traditions, from a cultural and family POV.

However, my "Christmas" this year was to give some cash to my one son for doing a great job in college, and getting a phone card for my daughter's cell phone bill, and going with my eldest son to dinner and a movie. Am giving a copy of my two books to my boyfriend's family, and my boyfriend and myself AGREED ahead that we would NOT give anything to each other.

The holiday is so commercialized, and wasteful of money. Better to give $$$ to charity, or help a family in need.

Nope, no gifts under the tree.
No Christmas for us this year to speak of. It will just be another day.

I rather like it that way. So much easier.
I am happy that there is no Christmas for me!

Friday, December 14, 2012


Divorce, I have done it more than once.

I don't wish to ever do it again, and wouldn't have this last time, but after 4 yrs of not living with my last husband it became evident that getting together was not ever going to happen again soon, if ever.

Giving in is not giving up, but giving up is easier.

I gave up. I'm sorry, but it is what it is.

So here I am, with my divorce almost two weeks ago. And you know how I feel?

I feel GREAT! It was just another day. Nothing changed except a judge put his autograph on a piece of paper. Nothing had changed from how things were the day before, and nothing would change the day after. A week later I feel the same way.

I have a new life, and new healing has occurred, and I am happy! What more could I ask for?

So, it's true... the end of one thing is merely the beginning of the next.

Kind of like how 12/12/12 came and went, and how the so-called "end of the world" (the Mayan prophecy--NOT!) on 12/21/12 will come and go.

I thought that looking forward to the Zombie Apocalypse on 12/22/12 would be fun, but I suspect that day will just come and go too.

In the meantime, good things are happening, little things, little changes day by day, that are bringing my love and I together. And my love is NOT my recent ex-husband.

I love new beginnings!!! :)

Thursday, December 6, 2012


There are many ways to heat and cool your house naturally, cheap/inexpensively, and easy, and earth tubes (I will call them "earthtubes" from now on) are one of the best ways I have used, ever, to accomplish this!

Most people work at a job to pay their expensive electric bill each month in order to alter the temperature in their homes, and others do their own labor directly such as cutting firewood for their wood stove during winter. Earthtubes are an excellent way to bring pre-warmed (tempered) air to fireplaces and woodstoves, so as to eliminate ice-cold drafts, which normally draw from around windows and doors to feed the fire.

However, earthtubes do an even better job of cooling your home in summer since they can, without any electricity whatsoever, bring the temperature inside the house down by 10 or even 20+ degrees, depending on the design of the home and how many earthtubes you have. If it is 99 degrees Fahrenheit outside, then it can be as cool as 79 degrees F inside. In my straw bale house I built in the 1990's in Nebraska, the inside temperature was closer to 70 degrees due to the R-50 insulation value in the walls from the bales.

How do they work, you might be wondering? They are basically 100-foot long PVC pipes with an entry and an exit that brings fresh air into the house. This works passively, so air rises out an open window in the house--this allows hot air out, and the vacuum effect draws cooler air in through the tubes. The tubes are buried far beneath the surface of the ground, so moisture from the air condenses out and exits the tube, leaving the dryer cooler air to enter the home. This process of convection and air exchange is what cools down the temperature inside each of the rooms.

Existing houses can be retrofitted to have earthtubes added on later, but most homes are built after the tubes are placed in the earth (much like plumbing is done) prior to construction. There are tricks and tips and full design instructions that I have in my book "Passive Solar Energy House Projects: A How-To Guide" (available here for $15).

I sold my straw bale house back in 1999 and the owners were already enthusiastic about the passive solar design (which is the best way to passively HEAT a house, besides to combine it with secondary choices: underground design, earth-sheltered construction, or a living roof... adding earthtubes for tempered air to feed a fuel-consuming heating apparatus/appliance/wood stove/fireplace is the tertiary choice for heating aids), but they were really SOLD on how well the earthtubes COOLED the house during the hot and humid mid-summer heat and have raved about it ever since!

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House Design Blunders:
Three Ways to Make a Fireplace More Efficient:
What is a Passive Solar House?:

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