Wednesday, October 16, 2013

THANKS TO MY SUGAR DADDY

In honor of my love
who is my greatest supporter
especially in all the "little things"...

You are my Sugar Daddy
the one I prayed for
who came at the exact right time
and saved me
from myself

Thank you for getting me
for taking me
and keeping me

No matter what happens
You always come through for me

Because of you
my spirit is willing
to listen
to reflect
to submit to your truth
to allow your energy
to lead us
through to the end

You take care
of yourself
and you take care
of me

All the little things
basic needs
I need
are supported
so that I can focus
on the bigger things
that need to be done
for us

Thank you my love
Thank you for your support
and your reliability
your sweet spirit
and gentleness
and regal flair
that stands out above and beyond
all others

Thank you
I appreciate you
and am grateful for you

My love
my man
my Sugar Daddy

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

SHE AND HE: THE EXCHANGE

Said she - remark
Said he - rebuttal

She disagreed
He insisted
She searched to explain
He closed doors

Felt she - cornered
Felt he - ignored
She was pressured
He was opinionated
Saw she - narrowmindedness
Saw he - outrage

She was angered
He was intolerant
She was turned off
He was persistent

She became argumentative
He became manipulative

She was defensive, irritated
He was manipulative, impatient
She - guilt
He - vexed

She got quiet
He got bossy

She avoided
He corrected
She felt resentful
He felt annoyed

She felt wronged
He felt right

Uncomfortable, she
Direct, he

no words from her
many words from him

she made him silent
he made her answer

she caved
he insinuated
she answered passively
he answered passionately

she complied
he won

she was sorry
he was forgiving

she gained respect
he gained respect

HER...
independence became dependence
distrust to trust
controlling to being controlled
defensive to willing
rejection to acceptance
turned off to turned on
anger to contriteness
fear to love
disdain to reverence
upset to contentment
intolerance to delight
irritated to soothed
guilt to relief
storm to calm
hatred to pleasure
uncomfortable to enjoyable

HIM...
protective
trusted
in control
satisfied
validated
turned on
sorry
loving
adoring
satisfied
happy
relaxed
silly
relieved
desirous
manly

She listened
He responded

They kissed
They made up...